Em M's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena childish impatient	Blind Spot aloof irresponsible blasé imperceptive chaotic weak rash overdramatic unreliable foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade needy distant panicky inattentive	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple insecure vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate dull predictable callous cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Em M is aloof
66% of people agree that Em M is childish
66% of people agree that Em M is impatient
66% of people think that Em M is rash

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (66%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (66%) boastful (0%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (66%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

featherspy thinks: foolish, unreliable, childish, imperceptive, chaotic, weak.
Cass thinks: childish, rash, aloof, impatient, blasé.
Sayrah thinks: overdramatic, irresponsible, rash, impatient, aloof.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> childish, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, irresponsible, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, rash, overdramatic, unreliable, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> needy, distant, panicky, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that Em M is aloof 66% of people agree that Em M is childish 66% of people agree that Em M is impatient 66% of people think that Em M is rash <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (66%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (66%) boastful (0%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (66%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 4.5.2024, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Em M">view Em M's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.